How to Drink Less

67. Why Sobriety Feels So Hard (At First)

Episode 67

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Why does sobriety feel so awkward at first?

Because you're a beginner.

In this episode, we're talking about one of the biggest mistakes people make when they try to cut back or quit drinking: expecting themselves to feel comfortable saying no to alcohol from day one.

The truth is, you're not just learning how to stop drinking. You're learning how to relax, celebrate, socialize, travel, cope with stress, and enjoy ordinary life in a completely new way.

In this episode, you'll learn:

  • why awkwardness isn't a sign you're failing;
  • why cravings and discomfort are a normal part of learning;
  • how to stop interpreting "this is hard" as "I'm bad at this";
  • and why treating yourself like a beginner can make the whole process feel lighter.

If you've ever thought, "Why can't I just do this already?"  this episode is your reminder that nothing has gone wrong.

You’re not failing at sobriety.

You're just new at it.

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